46? I’d be somewhat concerned that at 46 and after 24 year long career he has no money for camping gear (?)etc One doesn’t need to be wealthy to buy camping gear and concert tickets. And he didn’t raise children, has no financial obligation to kids or ex wives.

It would be concerning to me re his financial situation (unless maybe he recently bought huge property or something) . It’s neither here nor there but I’d be very careful that he isn’t taking financial advantage of you. I am not saying he needs to support you. Of course not. But I’d be worried that he relies a lot on your financial contribution. I’d be worried he isn’t going to a concert because he can’t afford it without you paying for it. I sure hope you are not helping him with bills/supporting him. Especially now when you are making more money and since you supported men before. Just be very careful.