No not a friend.

Or maybe she is unwell. Mentally psychologically speaking. My sister in law says the buzarrest things, she is not well. When she is particularly unwell she says the worst things.

But come think of it I’ve met other people like your friend.

I stopped talking to my childhood friend because she: made fun of MY profession (she has none), demanded things from my now ex husband ( during my marriage and after like bugging him to fix her car- he is NOT car mechanic), always made weird comments and also demanded I do things that I don’t want to do: vacation with her for example.

I stopped contacts completely after my son in law died and she emailed condolences and proceeded to talk about her life at length. All while I was tending to my daughter who was in horrible first stage of grief before even funeral was planned. She made it about her!!! Frankly my former friend has miserable life and perhaps that’s why she wants to put others down.

You need to stop answering the phone or even better block her. Why are you answering? She is bad news