Yes, I totally understand the concerns, especially after my ex fiance debacle.

He is financially responsible & earns almost as much as me. He pays the rent and all his bills. He works on 100% commission in his job, and his team hasn't earned the usual $2,000 bonus for the last month, which has hurt him, so money has been tighter for him. He just got a call from Ferrari though to be a service advisor for them, so he could receive a HUGE bump in pay. He would be earning far more than me and can carry a lot of our extracurricular expenses. Just right now, he has just enough for rent and bills, food, etc and some entertainment.

He isn't taking advantage of me.... he pays for a lot of our outings, concerts, hotel expenses and dinners out, etc. I would say it's about equal between us, sharing the expenses.