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Originally Posted by justafriend306
I want to point to the fact that you have some self awareness that the closeness you yearn for is perhaps not appropriate. I really commend you for this; that you know this is something to work on. I agree with a poster above though that your therapist isn't taking on a 'hands off' approach to your therapy. Disclosing her personal life to you only feeds that sense of closeness you feel you require. I would raise this point with her soon. Tell her that you are in fact troubled by the mixed messages.
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I press her for the information. Is it better if she says "I won't tell you?" She wouldn't tell me her bf's last name. I searched endlessly for it because she wouldn't tell me. I don't remember how I knew she had a bf but I know I asked her. She only discloses when I ask her. My other Ts did or didn't disclose. I searched for information and drove past their houses anyway.
She never told me anything about her ex husband. I guessed that they were getting a divorce.