I add myself to this too. I want my T to be Robin Williams in Good Will Hunting or a writer I love come to life. He will have none of it. I have plenty of real life support, but perversely I don't want it- I just want T and only T. The more I feel like that, the more he says things like I am just a guy bumbling around here or there's nothing for your BF to worry about since I am a Dr you are a patient getting treatment , and the part that feels personal is artificial, a case of both of us playing pretend so we can thoroughly go over the Crime Scene and you can integrate it with my help. Yes, of course I know that is fine and that is right. However it is NOT fine lol. I want him to keep me in mind and care about me genuinely, authentically. If I said that I guarantee he would say I keep you in mind when you are here genuinely, and that is that, those are the rules, they are for your benefit not mine.