For me, I just keep showing up. It has not taken away the urge to run, especially when I feel like I have done something wrong or that there may be problems between me and T but I show up and face my fears and she has consistantly shown me that those fears are unfounded. I do still fear a day when that is not the case, when I will cross a line and that will be the end of it, but her consistancy so far has been incredibly reassuring.