it was the first time that he and I discussed my CSA on an emotional level. There was a moment where I was talking about "the game," and he wanted to respond, but first asked if it was okay to call it abuse. I said it was. "I just wanted to make sure because you keep referring to it as a game, which kind of makes it sound less serious than it was. But I'm not judging you for that, because that's how you were groomed."