I am so sorry you are going through all of this! I also went through a major car accident in 91, and still to this day have affects from it. I shattered my face on a steel dash board, fractured a vertarbray in my c-spine, and my t-spine. I had to have surgery to reconstruct my face, but I was lucky. The only scar that people can see is the one on the bridge of my nose, and my glasses cover that. I hope you are doing ok today, and wish you the very best!!!!!!!