Thanks Possum,I still do think its so unfair that two different assessors can find so differently in one person's case when they have chronic mental and physical illness.How can you say someone is not affected and finding things difficult to do when they have 3 chronic physical illnesses and 2 mental illnesses.

Oh well,today I am relieved the assessment phase is over and it is a weight off my mind.I am physically exhausted though,I went out to eat and to the mall to get pads and then came home.I am achey all over and have tension in my back and shoulders.I have so much work to do around the home and garden but I need rest too.So I figure the more I rest the more I will be able to do,that is the theory anyway.I was getting nostalgic earlier too remembering people from my youth,I liked them and they never really liked me I suffered abuse from them,makes me feel sad,they are probably all career driven successful people now and I am ill,disabled and on benefits.