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Thank you all for your support.
The whole thing happened in 3 times:
1) we casually brought food issues up and it was ok and sheseemed concerned.
2) we breiefly mentioned it again and she seems dismissing
3) i sent her a long email to explain what the situation isreally like and slightly implying the previous time she made me feelinvalidated.
Then, during this 3rd session, she kept invalidating me even more, even if i told her this was a secret i was talking about for the firsttime and it doesnt let me sleep. This is serious to me. But seemed nothing toher. She kept saying im too aware to have an ED and my weight is the last ofher problem. she even said i seemed playing a role in what i had written, as if she didnt believe i wrote the truth!
So this is why im having problems bringing it up alla gain. Ialready did it very specifically and at great lenght in the email and that wasthe outcome. I doubt she realizes what she does. She even went so far astelling that “I” invalidate myself. But i never talked about it, not even withmy ex T because i was afraid of feeling dismissed and not take seriosuly and invalidated.Something that HAS HAPPENED!!!!
And it is not the first time we have arguments like this. Shecan see where im more vulnerable and instead of talking about it tactfully shesomehow comes out as accusing me of lying or exaggerating. Making me feelingtotally invalidated.
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