I know you mean well by your blunt replies, but I feel like this post is totally non compassionate. Yes, the T relationship is professional but it also real. Losing a T causes the same pain as losing someone in real life. It's definitely not just "okay, I'll just see another T". I know you don't understand that but many of us do.

Raine, I am so sorry that your T is sick and that you are going to lose him. Your feelings are understandable, and yes, it is painful. Many hugs to you.