Thanks so much for your lovely message, Eve.

Yes, I'm job searching every day. I'll just keep chugging away until something comes up that makes me think, yes, I wouldn't mind doing that.

I'm still deciding whether to complain officially etc. I don't think I'd have enough evidence to win a case against her./ the company. But it's good to have that up my sleeve.

If she isn't nice to me from now on, I will threaten to complain. If she still carries on, I'll complain.

I am determined now to make my workplace a safe place. Probably by changing jobs. I'm just trying to take things one day at a time.

I've had a conversation with her boss. Just informally. We were working together, and I thought oh what the hell. I said what had happened, and made it clear that I am not happy, and that I would never let this woman talk to me like that again.

So, the company are being respectful to me at the moment. But I have zero faith in them, to be honest