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Originally Posted by Lrad123
I can really relate to the whole feeling abandoned, but then feeling intruded upon thing. I think this is the part that makes me crazy because I know it doesn’t make sense. I think it’s great that he lets you email, but don’t you feel abandoned when he doesn’t respond? I sure do, especially if I email about something that makes me feel vulnerable.
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Actually, he does not let me email him anymore. I don't want to go into specifics but the truth is that I don't even need it anymore (on top of 4 weekly sessions).
But, when I still needed it and I did email it did not bother me that he did not respond - it even felt safer that way. I knew I can get my crazy stuff out and I knew that he would read but I did not have to face the reality of his response. Somehow it felt safer to me that way.