I didn't discuss it with my T, but I believe he is okay with me calling if necessary.

So far everything is going well at my sister's. She and I usually trigger each other but it's going pretty smoothly so far.

My destructive parts have been nagging me, but only a little more than usual, but it is a bummer.

I will be taking my daughter out to dinner on Wednesday night so I can talk to her without interruptions from my granddaughter and son-in-law. I will let you all know how it goes and if I decide to disclose to my sister. She is one year younger and has been through much the same trauma as myself, but I will not describe it now so as not to trigger anyone.

Thank you all for your concern. It helps so much to know there are others who understand.