Most men need straightforward answers. The one thing I needed to learn to have healthier relationships is to tell people what I need. If I need to be told I'm beautiful, then I will ask him to tell him I'm beautiful more often. If I need to be cuddled more, then I ask for that. Don't be afraid to ask or tell someone what you want. No one can be a mind reader and men and women are so different that miscommunication happens all the time. Telling someone what you want won't ruin the romance of it, if you don't let it. If you want flowers and he comes home with flowers, don't think, he is only doing that because I asked him to...think, man, he's so sweet, he listened and cared enough to do what I asked! What an amazing guy!

It's a hard transition to make, but if you do it, I promise, you'll be happier. Plus, you know a good guy from a bad guy, because the good guy will always do what he can to give you what you want!