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Originally Posted by SorryNorma
Yes, maybe. It just seems strange to me that people who describe themselves as avoidant also describe displaying typically anxious-preoccupied type behaviours. It's as if avoidant is viewed as the "cool" style of attachment of which people want a slice.
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Yeah, those things can sound strange. But I guess that's normal because you can't expect everyone to describe the full details of the symptoms and representations of their attachment style, so that an uninitiated stranger could reliably verify that it is accurate. That's not the point of this thread. So, I guess you have to live with that strangeness.