How did I end up with a non-friend? How does this happen? Our mutual friend says that she honestly believes the things she’s saying to me and saying it out of a genuine caring place, but she just has boundary issues. Yet all here can so easily see through her smoke screen.

I’m handling it well. I’m just letting time pass and feeling sad, but hopeful for a healthier future. I showed my family her texts. I’ve reflected upon if she is right and I “better not divorce my husband because I am miserable with or without him and I have BPD and need an intervention”. And my feelings are that I am doing the right thing with this divorce as I can’t stop getting triggered by my husband. I am NOT miserable either way.

She told me I am not functional. I am pretty darn functional just fine. I take care of others, not even just myself.

She’s so evil! Why’d she go take those jabs at me and persist until I had to end our friendship? I’ve been such a good friend to her!