How would you react to a sibling who has never been there when you struggled even though she knew about it. A person you have helped a lot in the past with her children, babysitting and so on. I felt I was only interesting to her when I could help her with something.

When I really struggled and was down she never showed support of any kind. I can’t really accept or forgive it still. We don’t really have any relationship today because I cut her off out of anger and disappointment.

In tough situations you see who is really there for you.