I know ton of people with ASD due to line of my work. Yes difficulty with social skills and appropriate behaviors is common but this seems to be extreme if you are high functioning.

I wonder if you would do better with supported employment (having job coach and working closely with vocational services for people with disabilities).

Or perhaps you’d do better with jobs that aren’t with general public like food service or retail. Perhaps employers would be more understanding if you don’t work in customer service type of field