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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
I understand they are upset about it but where in the conversation did he say he'd disown you or your family did? Your title implies some very strong statements but I don't think I'd equate calling you selfish with disowning you.
That being said you need to do what you need to do to be independent. If you can support yourself and move out, I would agree it's time to do so. Is there any reason that you can't other than your family opposing it?
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I guess they said, “If you crack up again, we won’t be there to support you.” This is what the OP must mean by “disowned”.
To me, “disowned” is a perfectly normal threat in my family. To me it means to never speak again and cut you out of the Will. My mother has disowned me several times when I did something she did not like. It’s a Narcissist tactic.
What is selfish about your leaving? Sometimes it’s ok to be selfish. You need to give your life priority.