If you keep moving out and marrying wrong men then divorce them and move back in every time, your family might think you’ll want to move back in again eventually and they don’t want this back and forth? They might just warn you that you can’t move back in. It doesn’t sound as they want you there for mom’s sake, it sounds as they don’t want you to keep moving in and out.

I also question why they are saying you need to take care of mom when you never mentioned that you take care of her? In what ways they think you are taking care of her?