,,,,,, Selfy????? .

At This time and at your age ,,,,, [ I not point and LOL . ]

. Selfy ,, if the ex has been consistent in making you feel guilty and / or forceing himself on YOU when you are most vulnerable ,,,,,,

Me would thinks >>>>>>. Pattern developing that is unhealthy in any realationship .

1.) ,,, It allows CONTROLL by one person in a manipulative manner .

2.) ,,, Being used and expected to except it when you have already voiced YOUR concerns as to why YOU ended the relationship ,,, and he not get it ???

Let the time lesson work here ,>>> and tell ,, >> TELL << ,, HIM that Let you go ,, and If without his input ,,, you call him after a few months ,,, Tell Him It is the only way that the two of you can learn to begin learning the lessons of Adult Probs and situations ,,,

It Not like you two are going anywhere as like to just go poof into Runaway land from every thing ya Know and your schooling . .

Just a suggestion >>>