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Originally Posted by TrailRunner14
This has been on my mind for a bit and I decided to put it out here and see you opinions.
Do you think that a child comes into this world with the DNA to be hypersensitive, and because of what the child experienced reacts the way that it does?
In the way that it does, I mean to react with dissociation or creating a part that can deal with what’s happening.
Or.
Do you think that a child comes into this world with no predisposition/DNA that would make it react in a way that would result in dissociation or DID?
I feel like this is a chicken or egg question, but I was just curious.
I feel like I have tendencies to be hypersensitive but I don’t know if they were caused or if I came into the world and reacted to what happened to me in ways that caused it, because I was hypersensitive.
I have worked with children for the past 20 years and know that some children are more emotional and sensitive to things that scare them or overstimulate them. I don’t have knowledge of what their family environment is, it’s just an observance.
Just curious.
Any thoughts?
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yes for some maybe
that said I have had 3 children and my wife has had one child. for all 4 of the children we used the same process and the same donor. one of the children is on the shyer side while the other two are very outgoing. the one that is on the shyer side is not the one that is more sensitive/ hyper sensitive. nor is the sensitive child the one my wife carried. the one that is more sensitive is one of the twins. the boy., the girl twin is rougher not a care in the world but does go through mental problems if her meds are not on track...
I have watched as each of these 4 children have come into the world. for each their reactions both physically and mentally scored different and how they presented was different... one boy cried, one boy stared, one boy yawned and promptly snuggled in for sleep and the girl smiled. they all came into this world already with their own way of being.
my point for some yea it could be genetics for my children they had their own unique ways. I dont believe their personalities came from genetics because if it was genetics for them they would have come into this world with the same identical personality and same identical problems.
we know my daughters problems are not from genetics. there is no double genders in any family tree. the problem happened during the normal cell division stage due to not genetics but rather the process used in a lab. if there hadnt been a problem in the lab then she and her brother would have been identical twins but each still would have had their own way of being. (their own personalities.)