They breed dogs based on temperament and traits. That is how we got some breeds. You pick the dogs with the most mild temperaments and mate them. The next generations is calm and patient. If you pick the most vicious dogs and breed them you will get vicious dogs. I believe it is the same thing for humans.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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