Maybe that is something you can work on in therapy.

Honestly I prefer being alone now after all I went through & am still dealing with in this divorce.

Someone would have to be NEAR perfect before I would even consided getting involved again. Friends are easier for me to tolerate not having to live with them 24/7 though behaviors build on me even with friends & I back off if necessary to avoid any real conflict. "Live & let live" doesn't mean I have to be closely involved on a personal level.