I've been starting to realize that my biggest problem is that I constantly compare myself to, well, basicely everyone.

Around me people seem all to be more succesfull. But also strangers I'm constantly focussing on achievements they already have and I don't. It makes me feel very bad and insecure about myself, but I can't stop it. It's constantly in my head. Like I have to compare all the time. It's like I'm always looking for someone who is not better than me, but it's difficult to find.

I'm looking for ways to stop this behaviour. I already know that you should not compare yourself to others, especially at my age because everyone lives their lifes differently. But it's like I want my life to be perfect and through other people I always realize my life has many flaws.

It's become an obession. How can I stop this? Any advise? Does this make me a bad person?