I used to think people were either logical or emotional BUT that is WRONG thinking. Actually we are capable of both thinking & MINDFULNESS is actually learning how to use BOTH. The place where both parts of our mind intersect is where mindfulness & wise mind thinking comes from.

I think your expectation of what marriage is like is a bit idealistic. Yes it would be nice to know someone totally but that NEVER happens.

Before yiu actually commit to marriage I think pre-marriage counseling for both would be advisable.....so yiu get a more realistic understanding about marriage & so you both learn how to relate to each other in that marriage.