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Originally Posted by divine1966
If she never was this way before, I’d find ways to talk to her. Tell her in a calm way that you were hurt and ask maybe she had reasons to behave this way etc etc
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I was thinking of confronting her about it...She definitely doesn't realize how it came off. She's a good person, and this wasn't her intention. But it still hurt.
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Originally Posted by Erebos
Sorry, that reAlly sux. Very rude, extremely inconsiderate and unnecessary.
I would be pissed.
Time to have a proper chat I think.
The dynamics of your friendship are changing and I think you need to find out where you stand.
All the best.
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That's what I'm trying to say, so thanks for understanding. I know people are saying that I should expect her to choose her girlfriend over me, and I have accepted that. My problem is how this whole situation played out. A heads up would have been very nice instead of doing things at the last minute and being very vague.
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Originally Posted by WasabiAlmonds
Unless someone is your true friend, it's always a possibility they will flake on you UNLESS they know you have the option to flake on them.
It's how the world works and probably always will.
I guess this person isn't your friend. It's sad but at least now you know.
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She's a good person, but this is the first time she was flaky...I think it's because she puts her girlfriend first which, like I said, I expect. I think many people do that. But the way this played out wasn't great.