I would ask him, what is his plan. Cuz my ts, they didnt have a plan - they were like, come in, we talk, the relationship is my plan. Fine. I could see progress and changes, and i read up on the process, so i was good with that.

But your t doesnt seem to be doing that, correct? You have a few lists of stuff - it seems like he HAS a plan. Now that you know each other a little better - like youve navigated your way out of this huge parking structure - what road are you going to take?