If he has indicated that mc mishandled things, and you also feel that mc mishandled things, the question to bring to therapy might be why you want your current t to mishandle things in the same way, because the things you press for and want from him are pretty much the same as with mc, only this t is resisting providing that--not because he has some personal issues with what you are asking, but because it has been shown to be harmful to you by re-enacting old painful scenarios that then become the main focus instead of the underlying issue.