Actually all exhankster said was that it came off that way at times (implied to her -exh- - how she viewed it) and it was a role that got played out. EXH did not call op any of those things as I read it, just giving a view on how an aspect of how op presents to a therapist could be viewed as that. Presenting different sides of a character or role to the therapist. I believe we all have these sorts of aspects - humans all do.