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Jun 28, 2018, 10:47 AM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Now our mutual friend says we three should have a sit down and talk. I said, “So, I guess C has realized she pushed a little too hard this time.” Hell no, I’m not going to forgive and forget this time. I really am eliminating toxic!
Meanwhile, it’s a big, beautiful world with many places and people. I am loving being away and with my family. My kids are loving this experience and getting to know their cousins. They said, “Let’s spend more time with these relatives on this coast more than the ones back home.”
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Your mutual friend needs to butt out. Sorry, it's a pet peeve of mine when a third party tries to intervene and tell me how I should handle a toxic person, usually telling me I should forgive them and move on. Just so they can do it again. Nope.
If I were you I would ask the mutual friend, politely, to stay out of it.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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