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Originally Posted by eskielover
I would just define her as someone who will only be there on her terms.....& go off doing other things with other friends. If this person is nice, then I wouldn't mind getting together once in awhile if when it is convenient for her it also works for me. I wouldn't go out of my way to make it work. I can be friends with lots of different people....but it is more about having company to do something with IF the timing works. Most of us have very busy lives owning farms or working & living alone so life's priorities come first then socializing.
I tend to accept others on their terms because I tend to have my own at times too....though I do try to make time when they have time if possible.....because my life is usually very demanding & getting away can be nice.
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Yeah makes sense. I am starting to get the feeling she really only likes hanging out on her terms and prefers to be the one that makes the effort because when she takes the initiative, she is actually very enthusiastic. She can be when I take the initiative too but not as much. In a way, I feel like I may inconvenience her or something so hanging out with her on her own terms may be better. Yeah I can't be super close, it would be difficult but yeah she is cool to hang out with when she wants too. She doesn't have any other friends close by enough to hang out but she does prefer to stay at home a lot and watch TV all day except for when she has to work, which isn't a lot. Yeah everyone is busy from time to time which is understandable.