It is hard getting past exterior, poor hygiene.

For me, a guy needs to have some things in common with me too or there isn't much that can be talked about or done together? It's nice they have their own ideas and activities but not exclusively. If the guy doesn't like any of the things that really make my heart sing, I'm not going to be attracted. I'm not going to be attracted to a man who believes or acts in any way as if I should "take care of" him. I don't want to feel like my world might fall apart if I'm ill. But I don't want a man that hovers either, trying to take care of me! My husband and I are fighting about that now, he's trying to take care of me in his Will and I'm wanting him to just give me all the money, I'll take care of myself, thank you