[QUOTE=healingme4me;6177219]Of course you are upset and worried about having made a mistake at work.

I'm a bit not understanding how that translates to viewing depression/anxiety as a weakness from your husband's point of view?

Are you looking for him to tell you everything is going to be ok because he's by your side-based upon song lyrics you shared?

Is he trying to tell you to let things slide off your back-based upon

I Apologize, like I said I was upset last night. He will tell me to get a backbone....that's why he plays the dinosaur song. I play my sad music because I feel it's the only way I can tell him....but whenever he says get a backbone, it feels like he doesn't care. Or that he views my feelings as an annoyance.