It can be. Personally I have been clingy to a lot of people and nobody liked it. Now I think about it wasn't my fault, I perceived them to be perfect... now I have realized, looks are deceptive. But to those people, I will always be the "crazy kid who humiliated them." That's not true; calling the mentally ill 'crazy' doesn't make the person who used the word any more of a human being than the aforementioned people. Not to mention anyone that understands mental illness wouldn't think I intentionally humiliated them. I did it, I admit it, but now I think about it they deserved it, if not more, from me.

It's all very subjective, to label one person 'clingy' and the another as 'soulmate'. One of my best friends in high school was almost... well not almost... attracted to his friends. Both of them were normal, popular teenagers with good networking. I don't know how it went out for both of them, neither I wish to know. I have grown up beyond the stage of caring for him, because he was a manipulative **** to say at least, because he thought of him (the other guy) as his 'best friend' yet me, in his mind, 'clingy' yet you know, he wanted money from me. So... well, I do need to explain anymore.

It's all very subjective, people are just like that. We shouldn't think much about their labels. Classmates think I am a retard, yet I am aiming for a very possible MBBS seat in a government medical college here. My doctor and teachers told me I can do it. So the people at PsychCentral. And I never ever copied a single word, yet I passed. I didn't have my lab records completed for two of the total four subjects, yet I passed. I broke sweat in the college lab and didn't copy but pass.


Now I shouldn't lecture you about my journey to med school, but I think it's probable I will get into it. Whether I make through it or not is another story entirely.