The new man I met as you know likes to post messages on facebook. We send each other messages and comment on each other's posts. I don't know but this is beginning to bore me. There is no fireworks. We get along fine. I don't dump on him and he doesn't either. I wish he would then I could have some excitement. I feel bored about him. He recently posted some music videos and he seems to like really old music. I thought it was from the Lawrence Welk shows. Then, he posted videos from an 80s singer which I thought was an improvement. So, we don't argue, we don't complain, we don't shout, we don't scream, etc. My family is like this and getting used to something different is quite a shock for me. But, I have to say boring is as boring does. So be it! I am not complaining but wonder is boring really good between a man and a woman who like each other? I was getting to the point where I was planning not to see him anymore, not because he is bad to me, but because he is really boring to me. I know this sounds selfish and stupid but wonder if I will be happy with a boring man. I should be happy there is no drama involved. I guess, in the end, what matters to me is not that he is boring, but whether he truly likes me for me and will stand by me through thick and thin. I guess, I just answered my own question. Anyways, if you'd like to comment, please do. TIA