Last night I had several drinks and told someone i was with with that I'm in love with someone else. I don't want a physical relationship with her because I'm no good. There's also a lot of distance geographically. It's an emotional love but I know it's really there. I can't bring myself to tell the person it's about on my own because she's in a relationship and, though mine didn't work out, I still respect that as a boundary.
Should I tell her? We've been having an emotional affair for months already