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Old Jun 30, 2018, 07:39 AM
Anonymous35008
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Originally Posted by eskielover View Post
I also found that stress blocks retention. I have seemed to observe this in myself. Throughout school & my degree & had a hard time retaining what I read & I had no MH issues until 42. Breakdown from too much stress. Meds, bad reactioms, I didn't bother trying to read or retain.

Fast forward 13 years & I left that environment (& my marriage) & moved to a farm I bought 2100 miles away. For some reason I thought joining the library monthly book club would be a good thing. I actually SHOCKED myself. I read the book & retained what I read....& continued to do this & have continued to be able to read & retain since then.

I had problems retaining with or without meds so that wasn't a cause...11 years later, I am in a stressful situation (finally financially able to get a divorce from the H) I am finding it more difficult to focus again. The common denominator is stress in my life seems to be key in my concentration.

This was an eye opener because I had this problem growing up, indicating just how mych stress I felt with my parents & went right into a marriage with a H who just continued actually very similar stress as my parents. Freedom from major stress & fighting for everything seems for me to be a huge key in my memory ability. I hate reading the same paragraph over & over & not remembering what I read. I still excelled because I wrote down the important things or highlighted in my computer engineering career so I could only focus on those things but it was so much more work...determination to succeed was the driving force during those years.
Yes, so much of what you say resonates with me too..
I had the problem growing up too at times. I had to work so hard to achieve..but I managed it...
It has gotten worse now I’m older I feel.
Appreciate your reply !
Thank you 🌺
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