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Old Jun 30, 2018, 10:07 PM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
Well I’m definitely owning it now. I remember in my previous threads when I talked about emotionally devolving and calling coworkers mom and nurse. That was a few months ago and that was the beginning of my unprofessional behavior. Then I started doing other stuff like swearing 🤬 and making inappropriate jokes. I did these things bc I couldn’t cope with the incident at that fast food joint and wanted to distract myself from the hurt. I thought it was ok to act out bc of what happened at the fast food joint. I thought people would understand.

Now I know that the incident at the fast food had nothing to do with my current job and I should’ve moved on. I just hope the decision swings in my favor and I won’t ever behave like that again.
Have you tried explaining that you were blowing off some steam and without consciously thinking about the future problem it would created because it had never occurred to you that the comment might offend someone or that it could create unseen future problem because it causing problems with your job?