Hello Chloepie -- I am a bit skeptical about remaining "supportive from a distance." For myself, that has too often meant never really cutting the cord and truly getting on with with my life. Always hanging on to the emotional investment I made in The Other.

You are a counselor-in-training, so perhaps those who are mentoring and guiding you can help you establish boundaries between your personal needs and your professional desire to help.

You've made a brave and reasonable choice. Good for you!