I'm still seeing the same old pattern. To paraprhase:

"I acted in some way that I know I shouldn't, because some bad thing happened to me. I brought it about in the first place because of my own behavior, but I'm going to ignore that fact. To prevent me acting in ways I know I shouldn't, the answer is to avoid having bad things happen to me. Because growing up and dealing with it is too hard. The rules don't apply to me. I should be able to act any way I want."

Still no personal responsibility whatsoever. There is no sense of cause and effect. And it's been going on since 2012? Why are we still spending time on it?