I wish I did, but somehow, everything that happens from day to day just keeps pushing me back to it. I think it originated with my relationship with my ex. very abusive. very controlling... in every sense of the word. ever since it happened, I haven't felt like I could ever get back to being the person I was before him... it was like I'd lost myself in all of the crap I went through with him. It's been about 5 yrs. now, but somehow, I just can't let things go... or get to any state of closure. It's become such a problem that it's affecting every aspect of my life. I'm seriously at a loss here on what I need to do to not let those issues affect me and my outlook on everything. any help out there?