If he cannot work due to depression and anxiety, then he needs to go on disability not look for a girlfriend to mooch off. There are ton of people out there who cannot work for variety of reasons and I symphatize with that, but it doesn’t mean I have to take them all in my house and support them. It’s fine to be understanding and emotionally supportive but does this understanding mean one should be hosting people in their house? I just don’t get it. Should we all take and support everyone who doesn’t work out there? Because we have to be understanding?