This morning we talked about him going to see a T. He reminded me about his growing up. He lived part of his young life with all 4 of his Aunts, his Grandmother, and all the cousins at that time. He, and one Cousin were the only males in a house full of females that were completely down on the male gender, so his cousin tried to be the male figure in my H's life. A major problem with that was his cousin was a lot older than my H, and would have him doing things that grown men might not do. His cousin also practiced on him. Later in life his cousin became a serial killer, and is on death row, and my H won't talk to someone he hasn't known for a long time, about his life. So I will be working on him to go with me to see my T, and hopefully start there. My H has been very good after I ended up calling the cops on him, so he said he has been working on his anger himself, and can't talk to someone he don't know. He has been very good after the cops thing, but I will still work on him to at least go with me to see my T. I could use all the encouragement I can get, bc I know this won't be easy!!!!!!!