ahh ok thanks for elaborating on that Maybe you should have let go sooner but that's in the past now. going forward just make sure you don't cheat, as that is unfair to her. just because she doesn't have the level of passion you want, I'm guessing you dont' exactly hate her either. So it's only fair she is let off the hook and not deceived by you cheating. Plus easier on you, not having to play two sides kind of thing which can never be fun.