my own point of view is if this really is something that I do not want, that someone else is trying to do, I would not even chat, or have the third person passing messages to the friend that felt hurt.

I would instead leave it up to the person who feels hurt to contact me and ......they......ask me their questions and sort the situation out between me and that person who felt hurt.

doing the he said she said through a third party just doesnt seem right to me....my message or their message coming through a third person could actually end up being changed or what have you.

also you state many times in your thread that you never asked for this so why continue doing something you never asked or wanted to do.

Id say...... if this was me... its time to find other friends rather than going round in circles through a third person. let the hurt person be the one to contact me.