hi jellylake i know how you feel cause when i was about 10 years old i was brought with different parent as in step parents my stepmom she was a bi woman she used to abuse me 2 to 3 times a day with her outfits on pantyhose and leotard suit she was a bondage woman,and for myself i was only a 10 years old girl.as to say she was very dangerous in her outfits and i was scared of her also so i,m living my life every day thinking about why she done this to me and have never got an answer so far.