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Old Jul 03, 2018, 07:25 AM
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Originally Posted by golden_eve View Post
Thank you all.....

Yeah, perhaps I've been spending too much 1:1 time with him, and not enough with my friends. Truth is, I haven't seen my friends much since dating him. I've called them on the phone, but I haven't seen them. So I could lean on my friends (and family) more.

We do go out for meals and hang out and talk. But I cannot lean on only him about work stress. It's not right.
I can’t emphatise enough importance of maintaining friendships/hobbies/interests/activities outside of one’s primary relationship. It’s a healthy thing to do.
Thanks for this!
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