My fear now is teh tests. What if the tests bring up more concerns than we need to know about? Is it better for him if he doesn't take the tests and then feel that he is just another problem? Even more un-normal than we though? I don't think that but I fear he might think that.

Maybe this whole procedure will just bring up more worries. I know of his physical challenges but I fear the possible results. I have heard they include parents in the testing. What if I am to blame for his problems?

I want answers for how to help him but am I looking too deep? I love him to pieces and I don't want him hurt or embarassed or drugged all of his life.